Dear Doctor

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to my letter and inform me of the fact that your entire practice cannot support homebirth (vicarious liability is a powerful thing).

However, I have to let you know that I question the *information* you used in an attempt to scare me out of my homebirth decision.

Although I did not attend medical school, I doubt that there is a way to predict if and how many times an fetus will wrap itself in the umbilical cord. Beyond that, I'm relatively sure you cannot attribute it to the mother.

Finally, the weight of a baby cannot be accurately predicted prebirth, even with maternal measurements and sonograms. So I'm also pretty sure that the weight cannot be predicted sight unseen, based on previous pregnancies and withOUT said measurements and sonograms.

Good try though. Good luck with your fearmongering.....I mean, business.

Sincerely,
an educated pregnant mother

TWO

Number of loved ones suffering infections by hospitals and hospital procedures in the past two weeks...TWO.

THANKS HOSPITALS!!!

A Nurse Speaks

This was posted on the *Business of Being Born* website. It is a great summary of why I am SO passionate about non-hospital, non-surgeon births (in the case of a low-risk pregnancy).

Written by a Labor & Delivery Nurse
November 9th, 2008

I am a labor and delivery nurse and I must say that I see all too often women coming in who want a natural birth and are not being supported in their decision. A women comes in labor and we strap them to the bed so we can see the babies every heart beat. They want to move to their side or sit up but then we lose the heart beat and have to reposition them in sometimes uncomfortable positions. Women who are healthy and want a natural delivery should go to a birthing center or deliver at home where they can walk around and get into comfortable positions that make laboring bearable. If they come to the hospital doctors are all too eager to rush things along one intervention at a time.

First we break the water which puts you at greater risk for infection and fetal heart decels. Then we check you every couple of hours which after rupture of membranes further increases the risks of infection. If no progress is made we start pitocin which dramatically increases your risk of cesarean. Pitocin also makes contractions more intense and makes it very unlikely that you will be able to deliver without having an epidural. An epidural can lower your blood pressure which makes it hard for baby to get the oxygen it needs from your blood which very often turns into a stat cesarean. An epidural also decreases your urge to push and guess what…doctors don’t let you push for more than two hours…so if baby is not out you have a cesarean.

Its a snowball effect that I see all to often and I can’t help but wish these women had known about alternatives to hospitals. I’ve seen doctors lie to patients and say that the baby is in danger when it’s not and tell them that even if they don’t agree they will do a cesarean to save the baby. NOT TRUE. You cannot do a cesarean or start pitocin without written and verbal consent from the patient. If anybody tries to tell you otherwise, tell your nurse you want to speak to the hospital’s patient advocate. If you want a natural vaginal delivery and have had a healthy uneventful pregnancy with no past medical problems, I strongly urge you to consider your options. If however you have had increased blood pressure or sugar issues or any other health problems you should not attempt to deliver at home.

Heather